Guys: Take initiative.  Make the move.  Girls will hint and flirt, but ultimately, they want you to make the move.  We like to be pursued, at least a little bit.  Its not playing hard to get.  We’ll say yes, but you have to ask.

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Ladies: If you’re not already sick of doing it so many times, you make the first move.  Guys think its hot.  And also, they are pansies.  If you wait for them to do it, you’ll be waiting a LONG time.  And it may never happen.